Maybe not because it isn’t just the time spent, although the farther away from an emotional blow, the better you’re at making peace with it. It’s not just the time it takes though, it’s what you do with that time, the decision you make when you decide to (finally) let go of the pain or the person who caused it; and putting that decision into action by guarding your consciousness against the insertion of painful memories or longing. So, it may appear as if “time heals all wounds” but it’s […]